All you ever need to be happy and successful is in you

What do you PERCEIVE has to happen in your life for you to feel loveable?

Do you have to earn a certain amount of money?
Do you have to look a certain way?
Do you have to abide by a certain code of living?
If you hesitate in answering any of these questions then the answer inside of you is YES.
It then comes in...
Ok, so who's way of doing things are you buying into?
Who's standards on money, aesthetics and daily habits are you buying into?
One of THE cornerstones in whether or not you attain true and lasting success and freedom beyond 6,7,8 figures is whether or not you buy into you.
Whether or not you understand you, and whether or not you show up in alignment will dictate what you tolerate and how you operate.
Don't get me wrong, this can work both ways...
Some people use the fact that they don't actually love themselves as motivation - they're trying to prove to the 'world' that they are good enough and they'll smash down doors to do it.
But in doing so, they're actually not proving anything to anybody because they are basing them receiving feelings of 'success' based on other people's perceptions.
However, every single person in the world see's every single situation through their own lens and it's masked by their own experiences, so for you to then rely on them perceiving what you've done as successful, and in turn giving your praise, then you're setting yourself up for failure.
On, the other hand...
Those people who are incapacitated by the lack of love themselves end up taking little or no action.
Because of this feeling, when the shit shows up (which it will do) they
believe that this is exactly what was always going to happen because they don't have the right to be successful anyway.
Who are they to have money?
Who are they to serve at the highest level?
Who are they to leave an imprint on the world?
The fail to honour themselves, they tolerate bullshit and they look for the situations that prove their belief about their lack of worth to be right.
So how do you overcome this?
You look inside yourself and recognise WHY you're running this pattern - where did it start and how has it showed up throughout your life?
Is it really true? Is it what you truly believe?
Or is something that's been unconsciously running your life and you've been living up to because that's been your comfort zone and that's what you BELIEVE has been reinforced throughout your life.
Is this pattern really what I'm CHOOSING to live by going forward?
Is this pattern what's really going to serve me?
If it's not then you can choose to form a new one through action and perception.
CHOOSE the actions that prove to yourself that you'te honouring yourself.
CHOOSE the actions that prove to yourself that you love yourself.
CHOOSE the actions that are in alignment with this EVERY DAY.
WARNING: YOUR OLD PATTERN WILL SHOW UP!
What do you do when it shows up?
Recognise that it's there
Recognise the body language and state change the comes with it
Recognise the thoughts that come with it
Recognise the situation that sparked it.
Recognise that it's bullshit and it's not how you're CHOOSING to live.
Back up your new BELIEF by re-affirming all the ways in which you DO SHOW love to yourself.
Until you love yourself you're never going to honour yourself.
Until you honour yourself you're depriving the world of you.
And more importantly...Until you honour yourself you're depriving you of you.
SUCCESS and FREEDOM can be easy and then can flow, they don't have to be about stress, struggle and sacrifice.
Get into alignment and you'll see what's possible!

Tim Matthews
The Powerful Man