Reasons why a guy will drag his feet before the big question in a relationship

Relationship is meant for matured and serious minded people. Being fully grown does not really guarantee that one is emotionally matured enough to handle a serious commitment in terms of relationship. When you are into someone who you believe is the one for you but he has never brought up the issue of marriage and when you picks the courage to talk about it, he never make any serious contribution; he promises you his love but its taking him eternity to solidify his commitment and set up a wedding date, find out the reasons behind his dragging of his feet. Here are some of the things that can make him drag his feet.
*He may be having another woman in mind or he is waiting for another woman to finally make up her mind but is using you to while away the time. A man can be so close, spends time with you but has another lady in mind for marriage. Do not waste your time and energy on any man who has no plans of getting married to you.
*When his family pressurizes him not to take you for a wife for some reasons: maybe due to your culture, finance or religion. When a man has fear, cannot make his own decision and lives under the influence of his parents. Such man don't know what he want and if you by chance wins the hurdle and marry him, you will continue to keep guard because the family can surprise you in the future. Why prefer to live in fear in the name of marriage? A man who cannot take decision and think for himself is a poor investment of your time and energy.
*What type of impression do you give the man who is interested in you? That you are not ready for marriage even when you look old enough? Do you hang out with different men? This will certainly make a man drag his feet because you are undecided about him.
*He will surely drag his feet when you give him much sex as he needs it; do you know why? He already has what he need to pay for, free of charge so, there is no need to be committed to you and he also have the belief that you give sex to other guys too.
*He drags his feet when he sees that you will become a liability to him. Is your vision, life and career unstable? Put yourself in order because it might be the reason why the man coming around you finds it difficult to be committed.
When a man is not ready for you, don't force things. Know what you want and don't put your life on hold because a man is finding it difficult to make decisions. You have only one life, try and live it with clarity of purpose.

By Blessing Chioma Okafor