1. He tells you he doesn’t want a relationship, but you date him anyway.You
go on a first date
with a man who has many qualities you’re seeking. He
tells you right away he doesn’t want a relationship and then engages
you in interesting conversation. You like him and decide to see where
things go. This is a big mistake. When a man says he doesn’t want a
relationship, you need to believe him and move on.
2. He flirts with you, but doesn’t ask you out.This man
— you know him from work, the gym or church — is such a flirt! He goes
out of his way to turn your head. Funny thing is he never asks you out.
He’s always happy to see you, but it doesn’t go any further and that’s
your clue he’s not seriously interested. Any man who wants to date you
will ask you out. If he doesn’t, there’s something holding him back, so
move on.
3. He says he’s never been in love.This
is a tough one. Some women are drawn to a man, who appears vulnerable
and admits he’s never been in love, like a moth to a flame. He becomes
your “love project” because you think he just hasn’t met the right woman
yet (a.k.a. you!). Thoughts like these will leave you feeling foolish
when he breaks it off. If he hasn’t been in love and he’s over 40, he
doesn’t want to be in love. Don’t’ fall for this — please walk away.
4. He texts, but doesn’t have time to see you.So
many men love texting. But any man who texts you “Good morning
Beautiful” but doesn’t have time to see you is probably texting several
other women the same message. Imagine the ego boost of texting with a
bunch of single gals. Don’t waste your time no matter how much fun
texting him is or how “into you” he seems. If he was serious, he’d spend
time with you in person.
5. He’s newly divorced, isn’t ready for anything serious, but wants to “see where things go.”This
is a tricky red flag because he tells you right off he doesn’t want
anything serious. Yet, he dangles the possibility of a relationship
based on how things go. In your mind you know things could will go great
because you’re a great catch. So, you decide to take the chance. Big
mistake! When a man tells you he isn’t serious, he means it. Finish your
glass of wine and say goodbye.
6. He brings “take out” to your place, but you never go out.Your
date suggests takeout and watching a movie at your place (The old
“Netflix and chill” routine). Sounds cozy right? But this is the man
code for “booty call.” He comes over to your place, but he never takes
you out on a proper dinner date. Why? Chances are he can’t risk being
seen in public with another woman because he’s in a relationship or
married. Avoid dates at home until you’ve had several dates in public to
see how serious a man is about pursuing you.
7. You always set up dates because he doesn’t.When
you call and ask him to do something, he agrees to meet you. But he
never initiates anything.Is he lazy? Maybe, but the more likely
motivation (or lack of it) is that he’s just passing time with you. He
has fun and you’re willing to do all the work, so why not spend time
with you until he meets a woman he likes more.
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